“Overprotected children appear to have lower self-esteem, poor coping skills, and higher levels of anxiety and depression" The very same can be said for adults too. Be it on your employer, or on the government, dependency of any kind lowers your self-esteem, limits your coping skills, and leads to higher levels of anxiety. You take a job working for someone else because it is easier and less stressful than working for yourself, and/or you feel they will pay you more than working for yourself.
The self-employed man deals with a much higher level of stress every single day, and, on average, develops a much higher level of coping skills as a result. The very nature of taking a job working for someone else lowers your ability to cope, and we have a larger percentage of those now than ever before, and are every single day putting up more roadblocks on people working for themselves and taking responsibility for their own lives. Have an employer, instead of a temporary job for money, come out of the old feudal lord-relationship.
But with that old relationship came fealty. No fealty, no noblesse oblige to take care of you, and you can and will be fired instead of just transferred to a lower ranked position. That is just the price of not having a Lord controlling your life, and overall, a worthwhile price to pay.
We need to stop teaching our kid to be employees working for other and start working for themselves. A start is getting rid of the union teacher, as go back to independent one doing it on independent contract, taking care of seeing to their own benefits. Those kinds of teacher will more accurately teach the kids how to deal with the everyday stress of being independent. And
Oof. The Mangioni story got swept away pretty quickly.
“Overprotected children appear to have lower self-esteem, poor coping skills, and higher levels of anxiety and depression" The very same can be said for adults too. Be it on your employer, or on the government, dependency of any kind lowers your self-esteem, limits your coping skills, and leads to higher levels of anxiety. You take a job working for someone else because it is easier and less stressful than working for yourself, and/or you feel they will pay you more than working for yourself.
The self-employed man deals with a much higher level of stress every single day, and, on average, develops a much higher level of coping skills as a result. The very nature of taking a job working for someone else lowers your ability to cope, and we have a larger percentage of those now than ever before, and are every single day putting up more roadblocks on people working for themselves and taking responsibility for their own lives. Have an employer, instead of a temporary job for money, come out of the old feudal lord-relationship.
But with that old relationship came fealty. No fealty, no noblesse oblige to take care of you, and you can and will be fired instead of just transferred to a lower ranked position. That is just the price of not having a Lord controlling your life, and overall, a worthwhile price to pay.
We need to stop teaching our kid to be employees working for other and start working for themselves. A start is getting rid of the union teacher, as go back to independent one doing it on independent contract, taking care of seeing to their own benefits. Those kinds of teacher will more accurately teach the kids how to deal with the everyday stress of being independent. And